Welcome, I’m Vaneetha.
I’m so glad you’re here. My prayer is that you’ll find hope in these pages. I’ve lived with suffering and I know you have too. It all matters. And it’s all hard. God met me in an unmistakable way in my suffering and I write so that others can experience that as well.
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This Was Never The Plan: Walking with God through the Heartache of Divorce
New Book
Divorce brings a storm of emotions—grief, anger, confusion and shame. Yet while the ache lingers, life goes on.
I have walked through this pain, so I understand how disorienting and painful it can all be. But when the publisher approached me, I didn’t want to write a book about it. I realized I was still carrying shame about being a divorced person. Which is when I sensed the Lord calling me to write it.
In this book, I draw from Scripture and my own story to offer what I’ve learned about:
Finding emotional clarity and letting go of shame
Trusting God in the uncertainties ahead
Healing relationally, resisting bitterness and finding community
Believing God has a good story for my life
I also share about navigating single parenting, church, dating and the work of rebuilding.
Whether you are in the early stages of divorce or beginning to restore your life, this book points to Christ’s faithful presence every step of the way. I have “check-ins” along the way that invite you to pause, reflect and take hold of God again and again. And the appendices are specifically directed to help guide friends and church leaders to offer support.
I also have recorded a nine-episode podcast, which is a great companion to the book. There are more details HERE.
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“Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass… It’s about learning to dance in the rain”
- Vivian Greene
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